goodbye 2007

Shit....2007 is definitely leaving us in few hours time...i cant believe 2008 is approaching near...
and seriously 2007 left us with painful yet memorable times; left me with lots of sighs and lots of experience for me to think about... somehow made me stronger; made me tougher...

seriously?

You are particularly keen at finding opportunities wherever you can now, but too much looking in too many places can distract you from something even more important. It's your choice; narrow your thinking or you may miss the most useful target. Remember, this isn't just about being successful; it's also about keeping a smile on your face even when you are working hard.

burnt to dust

With the music surrounding me... i could hear as if thunderstorms were in my skies... with rain pouring down heavily... without mercy on me....

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Now playing: Usher - Burn

I know misery loves company and im trying my best to not self-indulge myself in the pathetic-ness of melancholy and infinite sadness.

to be or not to be...

to leave or not to leave..
to move or not to move...
to cherish or not to cherish...
to keep or not to keep..
to burn or not to burn...

the scientist

Come up to meet you,
Tell you I'm sorry,
You don't know how lovely you are.

I had to find you,
Tell you I need you,
Tell you I set you apart.

wishy washy

Have u ever wondered if life actually made you differently?? Have u ever had the thought that you would end up being another person if u actually hadn't taken that particular step?? Have u???

aaaaaarghhhhhhh

Okay... im guilty...
been busy doing other things i have neglected uploading photos and all.. sorry... woooops...
i suppose so much has been goin on since November i barely had enough time to sit and catch my breath.. so i guess now i am..

re-invention

Ehem... i just finished reinvention on my other blogs..hehe.. now i have a blog just for survey-related answerings!! huhuuu... i guess no more q-a's ere anymore cos mostly all shud be shifted dere from now onwards...

Moreover i am in the midst of updating my other sites too.. apart of my photoalbum- and all my other websites (& discarding those i dont need.) well.. i guess this will keep me busy for de next few days... hehe...

cheers ^_^

cool

Sometimes you do all u can to preserve something very important to you.. but sadly.. not many appreciate your doings and keep on misunderstanding you for all those things that you really meant well....

its okay

They say change is good... change is inevitable..... change is something we need for our personal growth...hmmm.... let me put on my thinking cap... is change good for the soul? or can change actually gone bad???

Honestly this year 2007 had been another roller-coaster ride...

Big gurls dont cry

Fergie - Big Girls Don't Cry lyrics

Da Da Da Da

The smell of your skin lingers on me, now
You're probably on your flight back to your hometown
I need some shelter of my own protection baby
Be with myself in center, clarity, peace, serenity

:)

i will live happy ever after... i will.. its just the matter of time....:)

hmmmmmmmmmm

1. If your doctor told you TODAY that you were pregnant, what would you say?
are you sure?..are u? haha...

2. Do you trust all of your friends?
I hope i can trust the ones close to me though. but sumtimes reality is reality and things are always not what they seem....

words of wisdom:

"I can live without you... its just that I don't want to..." taken from movie Rumor Has It....2006

whirlwind recap

Phew... last weekend was a huge whirlpool week in my life... it came like a tornado and left me speechless... in a split second!!.. and now, im back where im supposed to be... catching my breath after the lightning bolt jolt! week!...

Lets just say i had among the marvelous week of the past months...

aha!

(edited version with more detailed answers haha)----------------
Now playing: Linkin Park - No More Sorrow
via FoxyTunes

1. What's your opinion on sex without emotional commitment?
- if they can have no strings attached sex.. i suppose they must be cold hearted rite?

Signs your date isn’t The One

By Bob Strauss
Despite what you’ve been taught in school, that small voice in the back of your mind isn’t necessarily your conscience—it may be the last fully functioning piece of your brain, desperately trying to tell you that the guy or gal you’ve been seeing isn’t even close to being your soul mate. As unwelcome as this conclusion is, isn’t it better to come to it by yourself rather than being lectured about it by an expert? No? Well, in that case, read on for a list of signs that it’s time to get back into the trenches and continue that trudge toward true love.

Wedding or warning bells?

By Karen Salmansohn

Throughout the ages, there’s been one question that has consistently stumped even the wisest of prophets and gurus:

“How do you know when it’s love... and how do you know when you should dump the chump?”

6 signs you're going to make it

by Tracy Cox
So you’ve been together for a year or so, thinking of maybe taking it further - but a bit nervous about proceeding, given the dreadful divorce stats? This checklist might help. These are signs you’re in a good place and very likely to be happy long term.

myHoroscope

By accepting your personal limitations, you are able to create a cocoon where you can safely make changes. Unfortunately, this bubble may not be able to hold all those you love, so there can be some feelings of isolation. The important thing now is to move beyond the apparent boundaries. Love will surely see you through.

How to Detect Lies

Become a Lie Detector

Introduction to Detecting Lies:

The following techniques to telling if someone is lying are often used by police, and security experts. This knowledge is also useful for managers, employers, and for anyone to use in everyday situations where telling the truth from a lie can help prevent you from being a victim of fraud/scams and other deceptions.
Warning: Sometimes Ignorance is bliss; after gaining this knowledge, you may be hurt when it is obvious that someone is lying to you.

the moment of truth

(mind me this is my second attempt & edited version due to my fickleness nature :P)

1.Honestly, what is your wallet?
its black prada & long purse type.. happily bought it when i was in melb few years back

Sweet Realization

A Sweet Realization: You Can Only Be You (and That Makes You Lucky!)

There is no one else in the world like you. There is no one who has experienced every single experience you have or shares the exact same outlook that you do. You bring something unique and wonderful into this world every single day you are in it. You are one of a kind

Look before u leap...

Before taking your relationship to the next level.. here i reckon these Questions to ask yourselves before you jump...

Before.....you get engaged.

ya ya ya

MOST Spontaneous Questions Ever,
BE HONEST....ya ya ya

1. What do you want for your birthday?
hmm... i suppose nex bday i want.....hehe cant tell yet...

2. Who will be your next kiss?
mr tingle definitely

the good stuff

I got this from my friendster bulletin.. (from a guy course!) Not sure how true this is.. but what the heck.. this is good stuff for de gurls... ;)

I can tell you this definitively about men: When a man falls for a woman, he falls hard. Men love to be in love. While men often get stereotyped as single-minded sex-seekers, the truth is that a man's stomach churns like a slushy machine when he's in those initial stages of the perfect relationship.

Ask the Right Questions to Find Your Perfect Partner

By Debbie Ford

When it comes to relationships, how many times have you bought the cover and not the book? Do you have a history of attracting the same type of person, only to wind up at the same undeniable conclusion that he or she is not the one? It may be time to reconsider the questions you ask yourself when evaluating whether a potential partner is right for you.

i need this smoke to go away...

How do you usually introduce yourself to people?
hello people... im ms.dreamystargazer....

Where do you usually order pizza from?
id choose dominos...pizza hut..

the many many words to express....

Hey... i dont really actually pour my heart out in my public blogs... but there comes a time when i realize some thoughts shouldn't hurt either... and perhaps it should mark a lesson to some of us especially me....when comes to matters of the heart...

how to make creme brulee?

Crème brulée, meaning "burnt cream," (also my fave dessert dish...) is a delicacy enjoyed by many. It has a sweet, creamy taste and a crunchy and smooth texture, all in the same bite. Fortunately, it is simple to make and will impress almost any guest.

words of wisdom

These are some meaningful quotes that kept me going for my dream... and Insyallah...
with persistence i will get there some day... even a step at a time...
Cheers to 2007 which has given me a step to my dream.. finally a recognition towards my biggest dream in life...

pure shores

I've crossed the deserts for miles
Swam water for time
Searching places to find
A piece of something to call mine
(I'm coming)
A piece of something to call mine
(I'm coming)
(I'm coming)
Coming closer to you

A rose for beloved...

Dearest beloved....
may arwah rest in peace in a happy place... and one day we shall meet again...insyallah... you will always be missed ya'i...
amin...--

the if-s...(edited version)

If you could be in the arms of anyone at all...
- yes i chose josh duhamel... sigh....d macho man & someone ....

If you could visit anyone or anything in the world...
- i'd go to perth in a blink n back hme in another blink and oh visit the other side to see they're all ok...

How to save a wet cellphone/handphone?

Ever dropped your cell phone in the sink, or even worse, the toilet? Did you ever leave it in your pocket and run it through the washer? It usually means you have to replace your phone, but sometimes if you're fast, you can save the phone.

How to save a laptop from liquid damage?

If you're tempted to down a soda, water, glass of wine, coffee, or other liquid while typing away at your keyboard, you may end up paying the ultimate price—liquid spilled into your computer from an accidental knock, a few drips or a dropped cup. If this happens, don't panic. Instead, follow these simple instructions as quickly as you can to try to salvage your computer.

Common Myths About Grief:

1. Children grieve like adults.
   
2. Grief is the same after all types of death.
3. All bereaved people grieve in the same way.
   
4. Your grief will decline over time without any upsurges.

Help Through Grief

1. Be patient with yourself. Do not compare yourself to others. Go through the mourning process at your own pace.
2. Admit you are hurting and go with the pain.
3. Apply cold or heat to your body, whichever feels best.
4. Ask for and accept help.

The Phases Of Grief

There is no right or wrong way to grieve. All your feelings are normal. It is helpful, however, to know that human grief is a process that often follows a healing pattern.

Shock is the first stage. It is accompanied by disbelief and numbness.

Denial follows quickly, crying "I don't believe it," or "It can't be."

Understanding Grief and Loss

Grief is the natural human response to loss. It is a process that occurs over time and involves a wide range of emotions, as well as thoughts, behaviors, and physical sensations. While grief usually refers to the death of a loved one, people with cancer and their families also grieve other possible cancer-related losses, such as the loss of a breast, the loss of fertility, or the loss of independence.

Coping With Change After the Death of Someone You Love

The death of a loved one creates many changes for surviving family members. Changes range from the practical, such as changes in household routines, to the more philosophical, such as changes in priorities or plans for the future. Grieving may take months to years, as does adapting and reacting to new life situations.

how to buy nothing?

In O. Henry's classic Christmas story The Gift of the Magi, Della Young sells her most prized possession, her long, beautiful hair, in order to buy her husband, Jim, a Christmas present. The present she chooses is a chain for Jim's heirloom pocket watch, the only valuable thing he owns. When she presents her gift to Jim, she discovers that he has sold his watch in order to buy a set of ornate combs for her beautiful locks.Is there a lesson in here for us? The lesson is you don't have to buy anything to be happy. Here's how to resist the urge to splurge.

How to save money?

Whether you want to go on a vacation, buy a house, or enjoy a comfortable retirement, you’ve got to learn to save money. Unfortunately, many of us tend to spend whatever we earn or more. We know savings are important for unexpected emergencies or major life changes, but we just can’t seem to put some cash away for a rainy day. Want to stop living from paycheck to paycheck? Read on and start saving today.

How to stop being broke?

Why are you broke? Why does money slip through your fingers? Why do you work like a dog, day in, day out, and yet still have nothing to show for it? Read on...

Credit card debt? how to cut em....

Most Americans have too much credit card debt.... Not forgetting other countries too which nowadays promote high usage of credit cards everywhere.. We've all heard that before, right? Only now it's gotten a bit personal... right again? You personally have too much credit card debt and it's about to drive you crazy. Reduce your debt now by following these steps.

How to budget your money?

Before you can do any financial planning, it is important to examine your income and your expenses. When you spend more than you earn, you are heading for financial disaster. Calculate every cent you spend daily, no matter how small it is. Everything adds up.

How to break a habit

Learn to train yourself to break any annoying habit. Do you bite your nails? Chew on your hair? Suck your thumb? Don't worry, there is a way to break all of these bad habits. You just have to encourage and motivate yourself.

Tight budget? How to shop carefully...

The high cost of many items nowadays necessitates careful budgeting. If you carefully select your purchases and create a shopping list, you'll be able to get what you need without damaging your wallet too much.

Even pandas say no to sex...

Veterinarians have tried pornography, diets and artificial insemination, but Thailand's famously celibate giant pandas have once again failed to produce a cub, a zoo official said.
Lin Hui, the six-year-old female, received semen from her companion Chuang Chuang in April after the pair showed no interest whatsoever in reproducing the traditional way.

how to eclipse competition in interview

Have you ever experienced that feeling of overwhelming uncertainty when you are waiting to hear back from a company after your second interview? You know that it is between you and one other person. Both of you have the same skill set and background experience, and the employer is making a decision at this very moment.

Preparing for behavorial interview...

Increasingly, employers are giving job candidates behavioral interviews. Behavioral interviewing is an interviewing strategy that considers the candidates' past performance the best indicator of future performance. If you're in the market for a new job, it's probably wise to prepare for behavioral interviews. Some 30 percent of organizations, including many of America's biggest corporations, now use behavioral interviewing -- and the number is growing.

Tough interview? how to answer em....

There are no tough questions in an interview. Just ones you haven't prepared for.

CV Writing... how to write one...

When applying for a job, many employers request that you send in a CV. What is a CV? What is the point? How do you make your CV stand out over the others?A CV stands for curriculum-vitae, a short concise summary which summarizes your skills and experiences in the past. The aim of this document is to demonstrate that you have all the skills (and some complementary ones) necessary to do the job which you are applying for.

How to write a resume (cv)

Found this quite useful for those who wanna make their resume shine.. Here's how to put together a resume that'll impress any employer.

How to write a resignation letter

One of the greatest secrets of success is knowing when to move on. With the right resignation letter, you will do so with satisfaction and leave on good terms with your previous employer.

How to resign gracefully?

It's time for you to make a change, be it a new career path or simply a new challenge. The procedure for resigning is simple enough: give notice, preferably in advance. But if you don't want to burn any bridges, thereby creating obstacles to future opportunities, you must be especially careful and considerate. Resigning is easy, but resigning gracefully is not. This article specifically covers several ways a person can make their resignation as smooth and as grudge-free as possible.

Share plunge wipes billions from Oz market

The Australian stock market posted its biggest one-day fall in six years today following falls on Wall Street, which is still spooked by the rout in the US sub-prime mortgage sector.
The largest fall since the September 2001 US terrorist attacks wiped almost $53 billion from the value of the Australian market, rattling investor confidence and eroding superannuation-linked gains.

Gwen is still performing...nuff said....

Yup.. this is good news to all Gwen Stefani fans out there.... She is still set to perform in Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia despite protests over the content of the concert. The conservative country has let Gwen continue her performance, but with certain regulations.