The Bitter & Sweet

Hello 2013!!! Whoaaaa OMG time really really flies & its February already!!! I missed my not working mondays.. hehe it was so much fun while it lasted... so addictive and i want more!! huuhuuu
So sad... hehe nways im back at the office on Mondays after 3 months off.. and i hope this time i can make the most of my Mondays despite the blues creeping all over town... sighh

Im excited with this new year!! First; sorry for being MIA.. literally!! Been soooooo super bee busy doing so many things at one go. i forgot i was only human.. and forgetful hoho. So managing tasks was my number 1 priority. my lazydays were long gone (ok, not all) but i learnt alot the past few months.

How to Figure Out What You Want in Life

Written by Stephen Cox -

What do you want to be when you grow up? For some it may be a disturbing notion to consider that even in our late twenties, thirties and beyond we may still find ourselves asking this question of ourselves. Before I was ten years old I knew with naïve assurance what it was I wanted to do with my life. By the time I was twenty I was well established in the career I had decided on ten years before. Shortly after, life came along and swept the board clean.

If you can decide on a long-term career goal having it ahead of you can be a source of comfort and certainty that you can draw on. Knowing what you want to be when you grow up can serve as an anchor point in life. You know where you are and you know where you’re going. You know what needs to be done and have a plan for how to go about doing it.

On the other hand, indecision and uncertainty when it comes to deciding which career path to choose, which job to take or what training to pursue can become burdensome. Some may feel without a well-defined path to tread throughout their working life that they are at sea without an anchor. Simply drifting along to nowhere in particular. Achieving nothing in particular.

And that’s just what to do during work hours.

Life is incredibly complex. It is filled with infinite possibilities limited only by our creative ability and courage. Do you perhaps want a family and to buy a house? Or do you want to travel, see the world and meet all manner of different people? Both? Would you like to start a business? Or perhaps you would like to disappear into the rural hills on your own quiet little self-sufficient farm? Learn a martial art? Learn to paint and draw? Meditate every day? Write a novel?

In fact you might have an inkling that you would somehow like to do all of the above. With so many possibilities you’re going to need to…

Cupid strikes again!

creatively by hubs :)

Helo helo monday we meet again!
As usual monday mornings comes with a special groan** from all of us when we just had an awesome sleep-all-day weekend hehe..

nways i had an interesting productive weekend. hubs & i spring cleaned our home on sunday noon (clearing all dead flowes we took from the reception) and of course includes the sweeping; the vacuuming & the mopping. hehe im glad we both made quite a team! alhamdulillah.

saturday was another  good day for us both. it was a good recuperating weekend! :D

nways the topic i had in mind this morning is about "Luurrrrveeee" hehe its just that it came about my thoughts this morning while i was driving. it started how some friends of mine are now seeing some people we didnt expect off.. and vice versa for them worlds.

sometimes its funny how Cupid strikes us out in our both world. little did we know we were meant for that specific person. less we never knew how we were destined for them but it never occurred until the very moments appear - the day we realise it was meant to be.

for some of us; we date & be in a relationship for years with the same guy and even managed to marry em after all those years. well whats not meant to be when love blossoms & grows after all those years right?
well who cares about 3/4 years being together before being married -- as long as the timing was right- and we knows we're right for one another right?

but there are also few of us (im in this statistics) was when we "Veni, Vedi, Veci?" hahhahhaha well its more likely; we see, we like, we love & conquer... i suppose time was another factor we overlooked this part. cos infatuation & adoration wins all. well.. to most of us; at this stage it really doesn't matter how long we knew each other; most importantly its the love feeling we have upon one another. so time factor is really not a big issue to some of us.

so - i suppose it doesnt matter how or where we meet our "mr rights" or "mr gona-be-right"; the most important factor is how we treat each other and the love we feel on one another.

there are even couples who haven't met each other until on their wedding day; but love just blossomed on its on way... also there are even couples who befriended for years but somehow cupid jus strike one day and tadaaa.. they're on their altar already!

see we may never know how or when cupid strikes us  -- it will just did when the times comes without us knowing at all!

me & hubs were dating for 6 months (& 3 months engaged) before we tied the knot.... and surprisingly we were both coming from different directions before we met each other... see? we had no idea we were meant to meet...(plus we were both coming out from 4 year rships before we found each other) hehehehe

so dont underestimate cupid & how its magic works. it really does strike from ways u can never expect.

for those of u out there who seem hopeless about love: let me remind u not to giveup easily on urself and always believe in "love". To be honest; cupid strikes when u believe in them. and yes believe in "Qada & Qadar"... & always pray. u will never know if ur "mr gona-be-the-one" is right at the next corner.

Like they always say; we are all made in pairs. its only when we learn to accept our imperfections & open our eyes; many lights of opportunities will come soon knocking on our doors. Have faith and Believe.

P/s: finding a someone is another thing; keeping with someone is another story. Take one step at time & live life!

till that day

"I'll be sitting right here, waiting & anticipating... until that day comes when you realize you really want to be with me for real; and you know just where to find me...."~

~romeo & juliet