I find her honesty is quite refreshing & new for those of us who need a lil heads up on what married life's all about. True; its a life we can only know when we experience them altogether; but somehow i find it no harm if one can share such experience for the benefit of all of us. :)
Here;s what she says,,,:
"I love being married," she says, "but there was a time when I didn't so much. The first four to six months were the hardest. It was the first time we lived together, and there was a weight in the relationship that didn't exist before.
"It was crazy. I was like, 'Can't we live in separate houses so I can keep things the way I like them?' I didn't want to nag all the time. You fall into those quintessential roles where he's the put-upon husband, and I'm the naggy wife."
She adds, "I don't think he felt that way at all, but I got insecure about it. Communication is always difficult. I don't care if you're married or it's your best friend or your mom or your dad. Sometimes you mis-communicate. I'm someone who always hears it wrong, so I've had to work on that. Now we're in a really wonderful place. Marriage is an ebb and flow, and there will always be rough spots you have to work on."
Quite truthful words isnt she?... i find i can relate to her words in certain sense. nyways.. true marriage is whole new universe altogether. its way different from just dating & just meeting that person. its a commitment of 2 people tying their both lives together. Cos i believe someone upthere create us all in pairs-- and each one of us has the right to find their person.
So true with marriage is also about communication between 2 people. its also about the flow... and true...
its a total different world altogether... :D
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