to make or not to?

Knock knock.. yuuhuuuu im back.....

Hehe sorry for the MIA-ness past week lately. Work has been catchingup on me & not forgetting to mentioned - my new house is currently under renovation.. huhu.. hopefully insyallah it will be ready by raya.. hehe cant wait!

Well lastnight i was watching GA - on the episode about Valentine's Day massacre - that a roof of a favorite  restaurant collapse in Seatle. The story was partly about this waiter who had the hots for this married lady who keep coming back to the restaurant for 15years.. and only till the accident; the waiter had the guts to say he loved her all these years...


The point is that he was in love with her & he didnt make a move back then. but now she is married to someone else. The waiter said he was watching them everytime they cameby; from his observation; her marriage seemd boring and unadventurous with less conversation. for many years he has been watching them. ... But it was what the lady said that caught me offguard.

She said " People make a choices everyday... I made my choice once and also for the last 15 years." and stood by her husband to make that choice everyday and still is...

Errr my point is that she made her choice - and for that she stick & deal with it. and so do we.
We people make choices everyday. whether we do this; we do that; we go here; we go that. Little choices and big choices that determine who we are and what outcome our actions gonna be.

and for that we have to deal with all the consequences. whether we like or not; whether we are happy - its the  choice that we make at the first place.

For me - my life big making choices - marriage; buying a car; deciding to splurge; buying a house and the list goes on and on. sometimes i get the question look for others wondering - why did i? and why didnt i?...
but truth is - in the end its my choice to make & i'm gona stick thick & thin through it like an adult.

So back to everyone else- we all make choices everyday.
the Question is - how much are we dealing with the choices we make each single day?