well anyways since im bored at the office with too much research &; reading going on -- i figure a lil penned session would take my heat off. haha. at least i can blog without being trace back to here right? heheheh (since i get the hint we're under office net surveillance too)
So apart from going through a total rollercoaster week (the frustration news &; my accident with a motorbike) i realise i shouldnt let all these things get me &; bring down my spirits.
one thing i've learned this week is: life is just - we win some; we lose some... so deal with it!..
for me its not everyday we live with smiles &;; happy days; its how we get ourselves through each day at each time spirals &; downwards gets us. true; happiness may be there sometimes; but that doesnt mean we dont hang onto it or be grateful whenever we have it. easy said than done huh? haahaa i suppose. cos when u're down... u just forget everything else &; gets blind too.
but the saying of letting go always gives a great impact to those who believe it. if we let go & just believe everything else will be ok afterwards- the truth is - it really will be. so long we know that things will take turnaround later on; it will. gotta have faith!
well enough of my yak yak; i wana write more about what to do for my next anniversary with hubs. hehe.. you see its been 4 months of married life and everyday there's always new thing to learn about each other.... hehe from smiles & laughers.. we also have days we wana kill one another... haha but i suppose in the end u keep learning that whatever it is -
we are stuck by each other.. whether we like it or not...
so im sure to newlyweds out there; u guys will have your days of ever afters & rainy days too. the key has always been communication.
it has always been.
many of us always take for granted of each other's presence and too often we assume &; judge our partners based on our best interest or intentions.
so problem arise &; if we dont find ways to solve the issues... you will find how amazing it is to have them keep coming back &; chew ur asses... and causing further resentments..
i suppose its better to deal the sour times now when its small before it gets bigger &; complicated.. plus there's no happy afters if there's always lose-lose situation right?
even for us - we stil got heaps to learn about.. and yes i admit sometimes it can be difficult too. but what u do when the going gets tough? hehe so the tough gets going.
live with the crap. dont like the crap? change. deal with it.
so here i am figuring what to do for my 4th month anniversary.. hmmmm.....something sweet yet meaningful....hmmm :P
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