
My Saturday was much home based one.. (since heavy traffic/ close everywhere) we stayed in and made it up yesterday with errands & meetings.
Anyways since its monday (& most of us got monday bluesss) i thought i'd like to share some personal opinions of mine...First - to all the followers; thanks a million for always making time to read..hehe u guys the best.:)
Second i wana address about Rumors that begins with nothing ends with something spicy & hurtful ---
Im sure we all are technological wired these days - everyone is connected through anyone - Either via FB - twitter webpages, blog & many more. Sometimes its too easy to get info of someone; just by clicking their info page & u get a glimpse of their lives.
Not only the biodata.. also the pictures... the activities that written all over those pages we've been connected with. Well becos its too easy to get info; its very easy to convey them, interpret them and also misunderstood about them.
Eg: A picture of a Celeb partying with friends, wearing sleeveless & laughing (oh & guys in the pics too)(Eg The Nora Elena actress scandal pics....)
What she may be portrayed by the pics as?
a) she's partyholic (party tak ingat dunia)
b) she'a an alcoholic (u saw the bottle on the table)
c) she doesnt have morals (skimpy clothes she & her friends wore)
d) she's a social person (lots of guys around her.. )
So truth was she:
a) she partied cos she just finished her exams (been studying / not going out of house the past 3 months) or she might just graduated
b) she only had coca cola. (the bottle wasnt hers - at all)
c) she had a sweater with her which she took it off (cos it was stuffy in there)
d) her college mates are guys & they've been friends for years.
See? we live in a prejudice world. For years people have misjudged and misunderstood others; giving misconception and lies all over without justice. would it be nice to be more civil & let it be?
sadly... some society just love talking negative about others.
Im sadden cos i too am also a victim to this nonsense. Not that i partied or even do anything illegal. Haih...
Its frustrating to know there are some individuals who enjoy spreading lies & stories about others. Sadly they claim they are 'religious' and ' know it all' but
look at the mirror. if you're so know it all - why are u talking about others? buat dosa? tula org melayu.. tau buat cerite tambah salt & pepper. thats what happens when envy + jealousy masuk kepala.
So kepada berkenaan; i hope u come to realization of your lies.
Nyways i post on hub's FB wall to clear our names.
1. it was held before the wedding 13.2.2010.
2. it was held at my rumah. RUMAH not club not public place.
3. it was a PRIVATE gathering/ majlis. Only girls, close frens + family invited. thats why it was called a "HENS NITE"
4.Hafiz came to makan for 30 minutes before he left for kampung. He wasnt there the whole time.
5. u happen to view cos it was mistakenly allow public view.
~To whom it may concern pls get your FACTS right before u spread LIES. if nak sangat tau; ASK. not ASSUME. Thanks for the pahala.
So be it a Pengajaran for all of us. To find out & ASK before making lies.
To that person: thanks. at least now i know who You are; i know where to draw that line.
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