even we ourselves can find other people's character quite funny when the other side think the same about us. and perhaps there are people with these funny funny attitudes that sometimes makes us wonder what were they up to and what was behind their actions.
Somehow i know at times i can be quite a funny character too. A jovial person yet grumpy. Tolerable but fussy. Nice but u-cant-bite-me-in-the-ass. Expression ed-less but know it all too. so i suppose i should be forgiving for others weirdness despite mine right?
anyways point is to be nice & civil at all times. avoiding big conflicts and miscommunication should be ours & everyone's agenda. this world would be a better place if we all just understand each other & accept one another. but who says the world is perfect? none.
as crooked as it is - we just gona have to accept it as the way it is.
I know sometimes each one of us would like to be a Super Biatch at certain clock hour. call it working time? 9-5 or perhaps the hour strike 9? and not forgetting dreadful mondays and slow fridays. sigh who dont want a blissful week pls raise ur hand? see none of us wants ugly days in our calenders!
Another thing speaks through my head right now is friendship. sometimes underneath the perfect picture we see at everyone's elses pictures are our very own reflection. I suppose im still learning about friendships and the real people we have through thick and thin. Note: not everyone in this universe loves it when ur on top of the moon. (honest!)
sometimes is sad to learn the truths about others. maybe perception is a dangerous word cos we keep getting to judgmental afterwards. and assumption is another disastrous word too. quite good and damaging friendships and relationships. i bet not one of us have not suffered from the 'assumption category' see... told u its hazardous!
anways im still learning & trying to accept people as who they are & what they do. its not simple really. its more like accepting blindly for their actions and trying to keep an open mind for what they did. especially when they keep doing so many wrongs to us. and correct me- did we keep letting them do wrongs to get it this far?
So i had few friendships id like to highlight. it was among my best years to have those people with me. For a glimpse of moments; i was happiest & lucky. and it was the fun times of a person's lifetime. Well they say if u laugh too hard during good times; the hardest is yet to come. and so one day it did came in a silent tornado.
It arrives but didnt cause chaos like hurricane. it came killing slowly by slowly like plague through the sky. one by one we begin to see the depth of truths. inch by inch we begin to discover more 'weird stories'. and sometimes u cant help it - being either the featured one of the movie or the heroine straight-away.
well im not pin pointing any specific person here. cos blog-bashing is a new low right? so im not gona blow on anyone today. infact ive learned that i and people makes mistakes. most of us learned and move on. sadly some dont and some still who and where they are like they were yesterday.
and us? we're changing everyday whether we like it. learning new sides of those we get close to and also on ourselves. basically life is all about learning. sigh - its a cycle of change we can never win.
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