A rose for beloved...

Dearest beloved....
may arwah rest in peace in a happy place... and one day we shall meet again...insyallah... you will always be missed ya'i...
amin...--

the if-s...(edited version)

If you could be in the arms of anyone at all...
- yes i chose josh duhamel... sigh....d macho man & someone ....

If you could visit anyone or anything in the world...
- i'd go to perth in a blink n back hme in another blink and oh visit the other side to see they're all ok...

How to save a wet cellphone/handphone?

Ever dropped your cell phone in the sink, or even worse, the toilet? Did you ever leave it in your pocket and run it through the washer? It usually means you have to replace your phone, but sometimes if you're fast, you can save the phone.

How to save a laptop from liquid damage?

If you're tempted to down a soda, water, glass of wine, coffee, or other liquid while typing away at your keyboard, you may end up paying the ultimate price—liquid spilled into your computer from an accidental knock, a few drips or a dropped cup. If this happens, don't panic. Instead, follow these simple instructions as quickly as you can to try to salvage your computer.

Common Myths About Grief:

1. Children grieve like adults.
   
2. Grief is the same after all types of death.
3. All bereaved people grieve in the same way.
   
4. Your grief will decline over time without any upsurges.

Help Through Grief

1. Be patient with yourself. Do not compare yourself to others. Go through the mourning process at your own pace.
2. Admit you are hurting and go with the pain.
3. Apply cold or heat to your body, whichever feels best.
4. Ask for and accept help.

The Phases Of Grief

There is no right or wrong way to grieve. All your feelings are normal. It is helpful, however, to know that human grief is a process that often follows a healing pattern.

Shock is the first stage. It is accompanied by disbelief and numbness.

Denial follows quickly, crying "I don't believe it," or "It can't be."

Understanding Grief and Loss

Grief is the natural human response to loss. It is a process that occurs over time and involves a wide range of emotions, as well as thoughts, behaviors, and physical sensations. While grief usually refers to the death of a loved one, people with cancer and their families also grieve other possible cancer-related losses, such as the loss of a breast, the loss of fertility, or the loss of independence.

Coping With Change After the Death of Someone You Love

The death of a loved one creates many changes for surviving family members. Changes range from the practical, such as changes in household routines, to the more philosophical, such as changes in priorities or plans for the future. Grieving may take months to years, as does adapting and reacting to new life situations.

how to buy nothing?

In O. Henry's classic Christmas story The Gift of the Magi, Della Young sells her most prized possession, her long, beautiful hair, in order to buy her husband, Jim, a Christmas present. The present she chooses is a chain for Jim's heirloom pocket watch, the only valuable thing he owns. When she presents her gift to Jim, she discovers that he has sold his watch in order to buy a set of ornate combs for her beautiful locks.Is there a lesson in here for us? The lesson is you don't have to buy anything to be happy. Here's how to resist the urge to splurge.

How to save money?

Whether you want to go on a vacation, buy a house, or enjoy a comfortable retirement, you’ve got to learn to save money. Unfortunately, many of us tend to spend whatever we earn or more. We know savings are important for unexpected emergencies or major life changes, but we just can’t seem to put some cash away for a rainy day. Want to stop living from paycheck to paycheck? Read on and start saving today.

How to stop being broke?

Why are you broke? Why does money slip through your fingers? Why do you work like a dog, day in, day out, and yet still have nothing to show for it? Read on...

Credit card debt? how to cut em....

Most Americans have too much credit card debt.... Not forgetting other countries too which nowadays promote high usage of credit cards everywhere.. We've all heard that before, right? Only now it's gotten a bit personal... right again? You personally have too much credit card debt and it's about to drive you crazy. Reduce your debt now by following these steps.

How to budget your money?

Before you can do any financial planning, it is important to examine your income and your expenses. When you spend more than you earn, you are heading for financial disaster. Calculate every cent you spend daily, no matter how small it is. Everything adds up.

How to break a habit

Learn to train yourself to break any annoying habit. Do you bite your nails? Chew on your hair? Suck your thumb? Don't worry, there is a way to break all of these bad habits. You just have to encourage and motivate yourself.

Tight budget? How to shop carefully...

The high cost of many items nowadays necessitates careful budgeting. If you carefully select your purchases and create a shopping list, you'll be able to get what you need without damaging your wallet too much.

Even pandas say no to sex...

Veterinarians have tried pornography, diets and artificial insemination, but Thailand's famously celibate giant pandas have once again failed to produce a cub, a zoo official said.
Lin Hui, the six-year-old female, received semen from her companion Chuang Chuang in April after the pair showed no interest whatsoever in reproducing the traditional way.

how to eclipse competition in interview

Have you ever experienced that feeling of overwhelming uncertainty when you are waiting to hear back from a company after your second interview? You know that it is between you and one other person. Both of you have the same skill set and background experience, and the employer is making a decision at this very moment.

Preparing for behavorial interview...

Increasingly, employers are giving job candidates behavioral interviews. Behavioral interviewing is an interviewing strategy that considers the candidates' past performance the best indicator of future performance. If you're in the market for a new job, it's probably wise to prepare for behavioral interviews. Some 30 percent of organizations, including many of America's biggest corporations, now use behavioral interviewing -- and the number is growing.

Tough interview? how to answer em....

There are no tough questions in an interview. Just ones you haven't prepared for.

CV Writing... how to write one...

When applying for a job, many employers request that you send in a CV. What is a CV? What is the point? How do you make your CV stand out over the others?A CV stands for curriculum-vitae, a short concise summary which summarizes your skills and experiences in the past. The aim of this document is to demonstrate that you have all the skills (and some complementary ones) necessary to do the job which you are applying for.

How to write a resume (cv)

Found this quite useful for those who wanna make their resume shine.. Here's how to put together a resume that'll impress any employer.

How to write a resignation letter

One of the greatest secrets of success is knowing when to move on. With the right resignation letter, you will do so with satisfaction and leave on good terms with your previous employer.

How to resign gracefully?

It's time for you to make a change, be it a new career path or simply a new challenge. The procedure for resigning is simple enough: give notice, preferably in advance. But if you don't want to burn any bridges, thereby creating obstacles to future opportunities, you must be especially careful and considerate. Resigning is easy, but resigning gracefully is not. This article specifically covers several ways a person can make their resignation as smooth and as grudge-free as possible.

Share plunge wipes billions from Oz market

The Australian stock market posted its biggest one-day fall in six years today following falls on Wall Street, which is still spooked by the rout in the US sub-prime mortgage sector.
The largest fall since the September 2001 US terrorist attacks wiped almost $53 billion from the value of the Australian market, rattling investor confidence and eroding superannuation-linked gains.

Gwen is still performing...nuff said....

Yup.. this is good news to all Gwen Stefani fans out there.... She is still set to perform in Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia despite protests over the content of the concert. The conservative country has let Gwen continue her performance, but with certain regulations.

tis for the Ladies

• If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
• If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.

Financial tip 0002

Pay yourself first.
Try to put away at least 10% of your pre-tax income into a savings account.

Wtf?

I got this from E! News... see how ridiculous this article is!....

they wrote.: " Malaysia Not Entirely Sweet On Stefani"
Gwen Stefani apparently isn't everyone's favorite girl in Malaysia.
Muslim students group that objects to the pop star's sexy style and come-hither lyrics is pushing to have Stefani's first-ever concert in Kuala Lumpur scrapped before the spotlights have a chance to shine.