de affair-signs?

An excerpt from 180 Telltale Signs Mates Are Cheating and How to Catch Them
Think your mate might be having an affair? Find out if he is displaying any of the warning signals described by Raymond B. Green, a private investigator and former police officer, and Marcella Bakur, a psychology professor at Marymount Manhattan College.

de abc's in life....

A void negative people, places, things and habits.
B elieve in yourself.
C onsider things from every angle.

picking up ur battles...?

BY ALLISON FABIAN

Don't declare war every time your man messes up -- if you're into him long-term, here's how (and when) to pick a fight.

"Constantly riding your mate will put your entire relationship at risk," warns Sam Horn, author of Tongue Fu! How to Deflect, Disarm, and Defuse Any Verbal Conflict (St. Martin's). "The key is to strike a balance between the battles you choose to fight and those you choose to let go."